In this article, I'll give you 3 reasons to dare to make your fantasies come true, but stick around, because the reasons are a bit further down! First, let's go back to the fundamental question...
WHAT IS A FANTASY?
To answer this question, we must first define it. The term fantasy means "Appearance" which itself comes from the Greek PHANTASMA.
Behind this definition, one must understand that fantasy is an imaginary representation that expresses more or less conscious desires.
A fantasy can be an imaginary idea suggested by your mind, but it can also simply be suggested by your real environment (friends, advertising, conversations, readings/films, erotic and/or pornographic...) through which your mind will reveal/awaken your desires. Fantasy is therefore a natural thing and it would be a shame to forbid yourself from having any.
But then, a question remains... Should fantasies be realized? After researching the subject, many psychologists and sexologists agree that it is interesting, if not essential, to fantasize, but they also agree that it is better not to act on them, citing one reason: The disappointment of the dreamed fantasy versus reality!
At LA BOX SANS TABOU, we believe, on the contrary, that fantasies should be realized. Not all of them, but most of them should be! Psychologists and sexologists talk about frustration in case of a bad experience, but perhaps the success of a fantasy begins with the willingness not to sublimate it and to let it unfold naturally, at the right moment with the right experience, and we speak from experience. We have therefore decided to give you 3 reasons to dare to embrace and realize your fantasies.
Reason I: for pleasure
Whether it's in our minds or in reality, pleasure is always present! If you're connected at the right time with the right person, it would be a shame to hold back your fantasy. What we want to emphasize with this notion of pleasure is that sexuality as a whole is an adventure that, if one feels the desire, should be stimulated. So if you fantasize and feel ready.
Reason II: It opens up new perspectives
Realizing your fantasies, bringing them to life, opens up new perspectives, new horizons for your sexuality, your body, and what you want to do with it.
Be careful, however, never to forget to RESPECT yourself first and foremost, and always give your consent.
For a fantasy to be successful, it must be realized with people who share your mindset and are truly capable of understanding and listening to you.
Reason III: To avoid frustrations
Everyone tells you that not realizing your fantasy ensures it will remain intact and you won't be disappointed! But what if the opposite were just as true, or even worse?
Often, when we repress, we sometimes end up regretting it, or doing it for the wrong reasons or with the wrong people.
My point of view is as follows: A fantasy should not be carried out in a rush, but by taking your time! I remember an adventure with a person who wanted to have a threesome. Several times she rushed into it then changed her mind, until the day all the lights were green and her fantasy of making love became a reality, and a beautiful experience came out of it. One must understand behind this that there is no need to rush, but that waiting can be the ultimate surprise.
Ultimately, as you'll have understood, to realize your fantasy and ensure its success, you need to dare to talk about it around you, to your partner if you're in a couple, to your regular hookup, or any other trusted person who will listen to you without judgment, perhaps even advise you, or offer their perspective...
Remember that talking about it is a way to fully embrace your fantasies and also to get closer to the possibility of making them come true.
Big kisses and see you soon!
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