Hello kittens, today we're going to talk about rudeness and vulgarity through the topic of Dirty Talk!
But what is it? To simplify, I'll put you directly into context!
Have you ever found yourself with your partner in a heated lovemaking session and suddenly, out of nowhere, wanted your darling to call you all sorts of names? Or another situation, your partner took the initiative to use very daring, not to say outrageous, words with you, or another situation, you felt the desire to speak very casually to your partner...
In short, no matter the situation(s), it turns out that this practice seems to be very popular with couples, as, according to a study published in September 2017, Dirty Talk is practiced by 92% of couples. You'll have understood, but just in case, I'll summarize: Dirty talk consists of using VERY, VERY daring vocabulary during your naughty moments!
âïž But why is dirty talk so popular?
For one simple reason... We live in a society where we have to appear good in every way, show the best version of ourselves... Thus, it sometimes happens that in intimacy, we want to break free from this perfect image and feel the urge, the desire to be treated differently, to unleash our bestial instincts, to let go...
đđ» How to start dirty talk?
First, by daring to speak! It's easy to see that in intimacy, many of us don't necessarily dare to speak, don't necessarily express our feelings.
Well, my first piece of advice is to start by freeing your voice and daring to say simply what's on your mind. The more comfortable you are, the more you can experience the essence of dirty talk. To guide you in this world, we have defined 3 levels of approach below to adapt!
Level I - Discovering ourselves!
đ”ïžââïž "That's good, More, Keep going, Don't stop, I love it..." These words may seem harmless, but believe me, saying them spontaneously is not easy. If you feel like embarking on this adventure, don't hesitate to look in a mirror and repeat these words one by one until they seem natural! Why the mirror? Well, it's about facing your own gaze, and your own gaze is a bit like your partner's gaze...
Level II - Daring to be free!
Do you feel more comfortable, have you gotten used to expressing your emotions and saying these simple words?
đ« Why not move on to the next level! This time, we're going to create more explicit combinations such as "I love it when you take me," "I love watching you move on top of me," "I love losing control," "I love the way you suck me," "take me without restraint," "I'm so aroused," "I can't take it anymore, you're driving me crazy"... Here we play on the flattery/complicity/challenge aspect...
Level III - Hot as hell!
đ„ Alright, you're comfortable, let's finish with the last level... You're pros at wordplay and you want to be limitless! Here are some words/phrases to use... "Damn, you turn me on," "You're so hot," "I want to cum all over you," "I'm your little...", "Do what you want with me," "Your pussy is dripping wet," "I'm going to fuck you," "Fuck me like never before"... I think you get the idea! Here we dare, we use intonation, we unleash our instincts and of course, we don't forget that it's all a game and it should stay that way!
A few final reminders!
đŁ We can't stress it enough, but for maximum shared pleasure and more, consent is essential!
You can also do mini debriefs of these moments when you let your impulses express themselves.
This will fully contribute to your fulfillment as well as that of your partner or the person who shared this moment with you. That's all, kittens, you know what you have to do... Free your mind and embark on an expressive and erotic discovery.
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